FindCUDA: Disallow with CMP0147 under Visual Studio
FindCUDA's custom commands invoke `nvcc`, which invokes `cl`. Under VS
this is done without a `/FS` flag, so `.pdb` generation races if we
use `BuildInParallel`. The FindCUDA module has already been removed by
policy CMP0146 after being deprecated since CMake 3.10, so it is
simplest to just disallow this combination of features.
Issue: #24576