win-wasapi: Fix legacy CMake
Follow-up to 1d5d4b29e7f48f9c414388f900d983f0eeef77df:
win-wasapi: Handle changes to the default monitoring device
Splits the WASAPINotify class out of win-wasapi.cpp and makes it a
shared object in the plugin, then also creates a callback to reset
audio monitoring if the default output device changes.