libobs: Fix bug where obs_data default might not be set
If a source is created with settings, default values would not be set on
data items that already had values set. The check here was supposed to
be a not equal rather than an equal because you're not supposed to be
able to set a default value of one type on an item that already exists
but is of a different type.
This bug would make it so that if a particular setting was removed,
there would be no default value to fall back on, and it would always be
0 or NULL for all values.
It's likely this bug wasn't encountered until now because before now
there had been no reason to clear or remove settings on most things.